My best friend Debby and I were talking the other day about what dildo to get for a virgin. I’m no expert, in fact I’ve never used a dildo, but according to Debby it’s something to think seriously about. I’ve heard horror stories about the wrong size dildo being used and now I’m worried. I mean, what do I know about the right size?
Debby argued that selecting a quality dildo for a virgin is quite complex. She explained the different materials a dildo can be made from, like silicone, glass, metal, hard or inflatable. Then there’s the sizing. What size should I get? Debby says I should go for something that’s not too large and not too hard. I don’t want to risk injuring the person whilst they’re exploring and trying out sex dolls toys.
So then Debby gave me a few more tips on my dildo buying journey. She said that if I’m in the market for a smaller dildo then I should ensure safety, as well as effectiveness. She advises going for Penis Rings a silicone or TPE dildo that’s soft, with a curved shaft and tapered tip. This will help the user to really focus on sensation and pleasure; a necessary learning experience for the virgin exploring.
Debby explained how the shape of the shaft is important too, as the body can naturally turn the shaft to make sure the user is going to the right spot. The vibrations of the dildo might also be important, as some may prefer stronger vibrations and some may prefer softer. But, Debby says, it’s important to make sure the vibe setting doesn’t feel too intense.
Debby then added how exploring sex toys for the first time is actually quite a confidential and uncomfortable subject to talk about. She says it’s important to make sure the user feels at ease and help them to maintain an open mind, so it’s important to allow the virgin to actually try out a few options before making a purchase. That way, they can than find out which dildo suits them best.
At the same time, Debby made sure I was aware that some people have different preferences when it comes to sex toys, and recommends trying out different shapes as well as materials. That way, the virgin can discover first-hand which dildo will give them the most pleasure.
Now, Debby said, the whole experience should actually be light and fun, and even if the dildo doesn’t quite work out, the user should have some fun learning and discovering. So now I am researching to find the right dildo for a virgin. It won’t be easy but I am going to make sure I end up with the perfect dildo for them.
I guess that also means I should make sure that the user maintains control and safety while exploring. To make sure the user is getting the best out of the experience, Debby suggests doing some research and maybe even exploring some online forums to find some shared experiences.
Then, Debby continued, the most important part – always practice proper hygiene! If I was getting a dildo, I’d want to make sure I got one that’s safe and not made from anything toxic. Safety of course, always comes first.
I also asked Debby if I should take into account a budget when buying a dildo. She said that it depends on the user and that she tends to think spending a little bit more is worth it, as long as it comes with a warranty and a guarantee that it will last for some time.
To make sure the user gets all the pleasure they need, Debby recommended to look for dildo’s that have an ergonomic shape. This can be quite pleasurable as the material itself can produce the different sensations. Lastly, Debby ended with the same advice about hygiene. So, overall, I should make sure to do my research to find the best dildo for a virgin.