So, recently I decided to try to use a dildo on my girlfriend. I’ve admit I was a bit apprehensive about it, wondering what reaction she would have. Plus I was worried about whether I’d know what I was doing. But being confident in my abilities, I found a local store and purchased a basic dildo with a Harness and three of the necessary lubricants.
At first, I began to think it may be a bit odd and uncomfortable. I was trying to understand the mechanics of the dildo while setting up the Harness. I’m really not good at following instructions, vibrators so I was struggling. But my girlfriend was being very helpful, patiently showing me how to get everything ready.
Eventually I think we got it right. It felt rather strange like I had never used anything like this before. I’m not one for foreplay, so this was absolutely out of my comfort zone. To be honest, vibrators I was feeling very nervous and awkward, but I knew my girlfriend was ready for the experience.
Fortunately, we were both laughing a lot and making jokes to lighten the mood. Even so, the dildo wasn’t as easy to operate as I expected. My girlfriend kept giving me directions and tips. She even said it was strange feeling it slowly slide back and forth. But at the same time, she was enjoying it too.
Once we got the hang of it, I could feel the flow of energy. It was a surreal feeling. What’s more, the Harness helped me to maintain control of the dildo, making sure it stays in the right place. It was like a slow dance, and I got a kick out of seeing her react to the a new sensation. It was hard to tell what kind of emotions she was feeling and I couldn’t stop thinking whether she was enjoying it or not.
My girlfriend started to moan every now and then, which encouraged me to keep going. I found out that slow, gentle movements were the way to go and I started to gain confidence. Plus, to help boost her pleasure, I used one of the lubricants I bought. Seemed like it really worked; my girlfriend seemed to climax in no time.
Well, that’s my story. I’m glad I followed my instincts and tried something new. Hopefully I can look back and say I’m glad I gave it a try.